Help For Writer’s Block

Posted by john on October 31st, 2006 — Posted in Cures For Laziness

As a professional writer, I have struggled with and been paralyzed by writer’s block more times than I can count — until I discovered the four solutions I’ll tell you about in a second.

Why four solutions? Because writer’s block doesn’t have just one cause; otherwise there would be a one-size-fits-all cure. It’s a complex problem involving many factors.

It’s also a lonely sort of problem because others just don’t understand. You see people who are less motivated and less capable than you who have no trouble at all with it. On the other hand, you see people at your level or higher – scholars, etc. — who also have no problem with it!

So writer’s block is confusing because it’s hard to not think you’re just weird (and even a bad writer) when you sit there staring at a blank page doing nothing. Maybe you should give up?

No! The good news is that, according to studies I’ve read, the better a writer you are, the more likely you are to get writer’s block. The more you know about your subject, the tougher the time you’ll have on average.

Think about it… because you’re a good writer, you have high standards for your work. It takes an astonishing level of quality until you’re satisfied with your work. Not only that, but there’s also a ton of external pressure to produce high quality. If you’re writing a dissertation for a PhD, your graduate committee will constantly make complex demands that cause you to second-guess yourself. If you’re an author, you’re under massive pressure to produce perfection. And so on.

What I’m getting at is that writer’s block is caused by being focused on the outcome while you’re writing.

Think about when you’re talking to somebody. While you’re talking to them, is it good to over-analyze and think about what it will be like to look back on the conversation? Of course not. Instead it’s best to just allow the conversation to flow.

It should be the same thing with your writing, since writing is just one-on-one communication in print.

With that in mind, hang onto your seat because here is the cure for writer’s block:

1. Stop Fooling Yourself Into Thinking You’re Writing When You’re Really Not.

Most people think about writing as an entire process, where you take a walk and think, you drink a cup of coffee, you read a book to prepare for the writing, etc.

However, in reality you’re not writing when you do those other things. Taking a walk to think and clear your mind is not writing; you’re only writing when your fingers are tapping the keyboard or moving the pen.

You’re not writing when you’re doing research; you’re only writing when you’re actually in the act of producing words and sentences.

2. Figure Out What Your Interruptors Are and Quarantine Them.

Answer this question:

When I stopped writing, what activity did I then do?

Maybe you stopped writing to check email, telephone a friend, or to do yet more research. That is your Writing Interruptor, and you should quarantine it for later. Prevent yourself from checking email (or whatever) until you’re finished.

Try it and see how it works. Because let’s face it: your current system of stopping writing in order to do something else is not working.

By the way, it doesn’t matter how much research you do or how many breaks you take to refresh. Nothing will get your writing project done except putting words on paper.

But, you’re probably thinking, doesn’t doing a ton of research make the writing go easily?

The answer is no… in fact it is the opposite. The more research you do, the higher the standard you set for yourself, making it harder to actually write.

I’ve seen a lot of extremely bright graduate students fall into this trap, making projects like dissertations take literally years longer than they should have, simply because they over-prepared and learned too much before writing.

Never confuse preparation for writing with the writing itself, because the more you prepare to write, the tougher the writing becomes.

3. Stop Calling It “Writer’s Block”

Ever noticed how saying “I feel sad” makes you feel depressed? Or (in the case of this site) “I feel lazy” makes you feel lethargic? It becomes a self-fulfilling prophecy.

Plus the label “writer’s block” makes the challenge sound impossible to overcome. After all, how can you do something if you’re blocked by some mysterious outside force?

So, rather than saying “I have writer’s block,” be more accurate and say, “I’m currently being too lazy to put words on paper.” That way it becomes a problem you can get past rather than an external obstacle.

4. Use A Model.

Pablo Picasso is famous for saying, “Bad artists copy. Good artists steal.” What he meant by that is you don’t need to invent the wheel. Instead you should model your work after something that’s already been done well.

So if you’re writing an article on on organic gardening tips, find similar articles and use them as a model. If you’re writing a dissertation, find other successful dissertations to use as ideal examples for you to follow. And so on.

Finally, was this post helpful to you? Please post a comment to let me know.

-John

Cure For Laziness Step 1: Admit Your Problem

Posted by john on September 17th, 2006 — Posted in Cures For Laziness

The first step to solving any problem in your life is to admit you have one. This concept was made famous by Alcoholics Anonymous and has helped millions of people recover from alcoholism.

However, laziness is different from substance abuse because, while AA says you’re powerless to get over your alcoholism, you can become motivated and overcome your sloth. My life is proof of that, and your life will be too as you keep coming back to this site to work through the program.

Recognizing your laziness is crucial. You cannot recover from a problem unless you first realize it exists.

This is the toughest step for everybody who tries to improve themselves. You see, psychologically there’s a natural inclination for people to think they’re special.

So it’s time to drop the ego and realize the pain that laziness has caused for you. Once you’ve pinpointed the problem, you can get moving and get results!

Here’s another good quote from Ben Franklin from The Way to Wealth (1758) that shows how bad of a problem it is to be lazy…

“…sloth, by bringing on diseases, absolutely shortens life. Sloth, like rust, consumes faster than labor wears; while the used key is always bright, as Poor Richard says. But dost thou love life, then do not squander time, for that is the stuff life is made of, as Poor Richard says. How much more than is necessary do we spend in sleep, forgetting, that The sleeping fox catches no poultry, and that There will be sleeping enough in the grave, as Poor Richard says.”

Question: What specific failure has laziness caused in your life? What goals has it prevented you from reaching? For example, did it cause you to lose a job? Did it cause you to gain weight? To keep smoking? In my own life, laziness caused me to flunk out of school, then start a business that failed because of my lack of motivation.

Motivate Yourself By Having An Opponent

Posted by john on September 13th, 2006 — Posted in Cures For Laziness

Basketball great Isiah Thomas was asked how a player could focus and get mentally tougher while going into a championship game, where he was surrounded by distractions.

“It’s possible,” Thomas said. “You have to sustain concentration on your opponents.”

He went on to add:

“I just stayed in my hotel room and watched tape. I never got involved in the atmosphere of the Finals. My first Finals we’d played the Lakers, and we went out there and won Game 1 and lost Game 2. But we wanted to make sure we didn’t get caught up in the whole Hollywood atmosphere of Los Angeles. The people there tried to suck us up into that; they sent limousines to our hotel to take us to the Playboy Club and to parties. But we didn’t go for it. Instead, 24 hours a day I was thinking about the opponent I was going to play against.”

Source: NBA.com: Handling the Pressure

So how does this translate to your life? The solution is to concentrate on your opponents or enemies, since success is the best revenge. (If you don’t have any enemies, invent some.)

When you’re doing work, imagine how you’re gaining an advantage over that person and leaving them in the dust.

A lot of successful entrepreneurs have got an axe to grind. A lot of successful people in business got really angry about something that happened in their life, and the passion for their work is a way to channel their energy.